Astral Cock Shapeshifting

So, occasionally I'll get asked things via email out of the blue. Its sometimes fun stuff (like this one), sometimes hard stuff (where do I find resources on therapists for X Y and Z issues), sometimes weird stuff (have you ever tried to inflate a balloon up your ass- my answer, nope, not yet, sorry). I got asked this via email about a week ago, but after waking up from my "not a nap", I had the answer for them, so I give it below. I actually have more than 3 ideas up my sleeve on this one, but I didn't want to send them a 10 page essay, 2+ was enough to start. To inform- the writer is female born and mostly female ID'd with a male partner, thus the pronoun choices.Welcome to the wild and wacky world of astral shapeshifting!Most people know about astral shapechanging as a way of doing totem work with specific animal totems for the most part. In fact, most books that talk about that sort of thing- grounding and centering, finding your base start point so you can come back to it, transforming hands into paws with claws, then whole body into animal form, then going on your astral journey, then coming back and morphing back... those kinds of templates- are all useable for what you're doing.Some people have astral cocks from birth who are female born by body, and have no female genetalia on their astral body. Most of these folks I've met end up stone (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stone_butch - BTW, I disagree with their definition of stone Femme- to me stone femme is someone who dresses and IDs femme but has no interest in genital contact, but I'm not either so I could be wrong), always feel violated when touched genitally but do it anyway, or end up IDing as trans in some way.Some people have astral cocks and cunts from birth who are female born by body. I know a lot of drag kings, sexually penetratable transmen and people who play around with gender who fit into this category. That touching their "bits" was never wrong, but felt like only half the ride. Then they get that first strap on, or pack for the first time, and whoosh, magic of self recognition in physical form.Some people have other astral body arrangements that might apply to your question. cunts only. Balls but no cock. Cocks but no balls. Neither. Something completely different.But it sounds like you have one at least sometimes, when your partner "pulls it out" of you, wow. The question is, how do we get there purposefully?A few different ideas jump to mind. The first is a solo exploration project that I got from Raven Kaldera (www.cauldronfarm.com)Take some time to yourself. Find a way to relax yourself into a trance state (or have your partner guide you there) and once there, look at your female body with your eyes closed. What do you see? Not with your eyes open, but looking around at your feminine astral flesh. This can be idealized feminine, or just you as you. How round are your hips? Your breasts? How furry is your female astral form? How smooth? Is your hair long or short in this shape? Any other questions, look at you fully.Then feel for your astral male form. Go completely into it. If you were to go off and be your full male you, what does he look like? Is your belly round or flat? Do you have a tiny cock or a huge one? What does your bone structure look like. Spend some time here saying hi to you as this guy, because he is part of you.Then feel for your astral somewhere in the middle form. I've met people who were pregnant men, who were Baphomet style chicks with dicks and giant goat heads, and women who have just a beard and nothing else male IDd. Find your androgenous, hermaphrodidic, other self. Say hello to them. Who knows what they will be.Now that you have met all 3 selves, visit them again. How does your female self look? Now ask her how she wants to be touched. Do the exercise above, with sensual/sexual overtones.Then, how does your male self look? How does he want to be touched?Then, how does your middle self look? How do they want to be touched?I find that if you have a cock in your male form, it has a way it wants to, or does not want to be touched. Just like in telling your partner how you want them to fuck you, you have to know first how you like to be fucked. This takes actually paying attention to the body part in question and hearing what it has to say.2nd idea.Having your partner draw your cock out.This one you've already had some luck out, so lets look at it.Become sexually aroused. This is the fun part. Get all wired up and sexy, and maybe even play around with some iconographically phallic props- dildos in your mens underwear that you're wearing, eating ice cream cones, sucking his cock. Play with phallus energy.Once you're wired up, have your partner start their hands out at the base of your root chakra, back by your ass. One hand there, and one hand up on your belly. As the hand from the ass pulls up through your legs, the other pulls down from your belly towards your mons. Its like molding sand for the base of a sand castle. Have him and you feel the energy of your flesh, tingling on the surface of your skin from already being turned on. Use that energy to pulse out, make more sand as it were, for him to push towards where your cock comes out. I find licking the area a bit (where the cock would be, not your twat, thats just distracting for most folks) helps, as if it were the head of your shy cock- because it is! As the sand pile of energy builds up on your mons, pulled from both directions, start shaping it with him, or let him do it solo. Embrace that sensual sweaty fag energy of him playing with your cock. Create that phallus out of your energy body, and... well, hopefully by now something is going. If not, ya know what, have fun with the energy build up and just fuck each others brains out. Its just good fun all around to play with this sort of sex magic.3rd idea.Magically invested props.I know a number of people who have invested energy into their props. Props? Dildos, dicks, phalluses, pile of socks, etc. Basically, the idea with this approach is to spend some time with the prop, visualizing it as YOUR cock. Ground, center, all of the standard stuff, then go shopping! In the astral world, look around for what your cock looks and feels like. Find that perfect image, ask it if it can be your cock, and holding that astral cock in one hand, and the physical prop in the other, bring your hands together and shove them into one space/time location. Meld them. Then come back to being aware and present, and for some folks its about using it right away on their partners, and for others, its about doing this once a week (usually at an hour or day of Mars), or once a month (at full or dark moon, or other times as feels appropriate), and imbue it with power.Ok, the issue with this one, even if it works well. Don't use it in your own twat or ass unless you are really good about being physically flexible. If the prop is supposed to feel right anchored to you, and you use it in that way, the signals to the astral cock/prop get confused. Also, be aware that it will want to anchor with you. This is really cool if you are comfortable with the sensations of *feeling* a cock through your fingers as you fuck someone with it (I know of people who have morphed one finger into an astral cock, capable of cuming through it), but is weird if you're not ready for the sensation. I also don't encourage it as if you already have the ability to have your cock out of your own astral body, there can be some strange happenings on the other side of the veil unless you *ask* for a bonus cock, not YOUR cock. I'd hate to see someone inadvertadly castrate themselves to make a cool sex toy.Hope those are a starting place on your adventure! Thanks for risking and reaching out... it wasn't presumptuous at all. If someone has the knowledge you strive for, the worst you'll get by asking is no. And even no can be informative. Yes, this is my full time living, and if you'd asked me to make you audio trance files to help with this, I'd want to get paid- but this was a fun exercise for me as I've been debating doing a class on astral shapeshifting anyway as I do it for gender work but also for animal role play, totemic magic working, and more.with Passion and Soul,Lee