“Playing Well With Others is the Baedekers of the leather/BDSM/kink/alt—sex world! It is the first book to completely address the most important steps in negotiating the brave new kink universe — how to find it, pick what part you want to explore, talk to the natives and join in the fun.”

— Laura Antoniou (Flushing, NY) (Author of “The Marketplace” Series)

“Wow. Just wow. I cannot stop myself from recommending this book to anyone & everyone. Whether you're curious about 'the Community', have been involved in the Community for years or have newly stumbled into it, this book is an excellent read!”

— Isabella Donna DiLorento

“This book would make a great supplementary text for enhancing cultural competence in a variety of disciplines and I strongly recommend it to any provider, parent, friend or family member of a transgender or gender non-conforming person, or simply any person interested in broadening their perspective on transgender issues.”

— Monika M. (Connecticut)

“This is the perfect "Trans 101" book. I wish I had had it when I taught Intro to Queer Studies a few years ago, and I will be using it the next time I teach that class.”

— Susan Harper (Gilbert, Iowa)

“Sexuality and spirituality are often treated as opposing concepts, but Lee Harrington makes it clear that the sacred and the profane are not so far removed from one another.”

— Ruthie and Ms. Stephanie Morris (Washington D.C.)

“It is so good that I read a page and have to go straight to my note book to pour out the sparks he's conjured. It's like he wrote the book just for me. . .”

— Benjamin Brownstone (Canada)

“You have somehow managed to give me the words for so many things I have somehow felt or known intuitively, but couldn’t quite explain.

With your work I now have a vocabulary to base my own work on…and I am grateful.”

— Jessie Morris (Alberta, Canada)

“Another brilliant book from Lee. No longer do you need to just look at the wonders of rope bondage, this book will lead you step by step into producing it for yourself. A must for all fans of rope.”

— Steve Carr (Christchurch, New Zealand)

“I'm extremely new to learning rope and purchased this book to help guide me. I attended several classes and left feeling overwhelmed from information overload. With this book and it's simply step-by-step instructions, I can use what I learned from the classes and practice at my own pace. ”

— Dion Lorah

“Lee Harrington is an incredible instructor, and this book is a wonderful distillation of his accessible, friendly approach and gorgeous, creative rope work. I especially enjoyed the chest harness variations and rope corsets. Highly recommend this book! :-)”

- Shay Tiziano (California) (Author of Tying and Flying: Bondage for Self-Suspension)

“You don’t know me at all and we never met, but your writings on ropes changed my kinky life forever. You introduced me this incredible world; you allowed me to build enough skills and confidence to go out there and learn even more; you helped me build my identity as a dominant; and your techniques filled my like with countless hours of priceless fun.”

— Philippe (Quebec City, Quebec)