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Mars just walked out the door. We spent the last hour and a half of his trip here cuddled on the couch watching the episod from Star Trek: TNG where Soon accidentally gives the chip to the Lor instead of Data. Showers, kisses, not-quite goodbyes and off the Californian went into the cold. Hot play last night after we saw Ocean's 12, which was a fun flick. My DVD collection is now 3 more: Kill Bill 1, Kill Bill 2, and The Order (new one, not Van Damme). Sunday was the Yule party at the house of the miraculous telecommuter, co-hosted by Bites. It was lovely- good crowd, great food, happy white elephant action (I ended up with a Gryphindor leather wrist band and a soap with a ninja in it).Seeking advice from that night though- how does one tell someone who consistenly macks on you "Hey, yes I'd have sex with you, but you know what, I don't think you really *get* polyamory, you never stop touching me in public when it's not that kind of party, and I think you'd become too attached if we ever di." without hurting the person in question?It was fabulous seeing Miguel there- he and I plan to have another date again next week- yipeee! And of course my would-be white water rafting but was there, and I haven't seen her in almost 3 or 4 months, so we caught up. I adore that woman, and yes, thus summer, white water a MUST!Late that night we all stood outside, candles in hand, and made thoughts on bettering ourselves and our lives. I reaffirmed my thoughts from the hook hang- that in the last year or 2 I have been far too obsessed about what the world thinks about "boxed product Bridgett Harrington" rather than focusing my love and energy at what really matters- me and those I love. Yes, my commercial face is important- but it should not take away from what really matters. After this coming Europe trip, I will be bringing my average time on the road down to *less than* 1/2 of the time gone, instead of my current odds of 2/3 of the time on the road. It is important.REMINDER- YULE PARTY AT MY HOUSE TONIGHT 5pm-5amIf you want to come and don't already know where I live, email or call me- I will be home all day cleaning and editing.