Posts Tagged ‘kink’

Transitional Fetishes

Posted: 20th September 2011 by Lee Harrington in Journal
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I am delighted that fall has come in New York.  Like my friend Boymeatwho dances each time it turns to late spring and early summer, I am delighted because one of my historical fetishes becomes common, rather than rare.  The fetish?  Sweaters. Boymeat’s fetish is for feet, something everyone who knows him seems to know.  [...]

On this month’s podcast, I go offroad by setting out without a pre-set map.  We begin at Rope Camp, and find ourselves wandering through trying out new rope, awareness, love, connection, tribal affiliations, the meaning of “I have to” and a little bit of porn thrown in… http://www.eroticawakening.com/ea134-going-off-road-jute-authenticity-challenges-and-love/ Ball in the image provided by Passional [...]

Lee Harrington is joined this week by Mollena Williams and Dan & dawn as he leads a discussion on consent. They range in topic from how to say no, how to say yes, negotiation, the Consensual Project, safe words and linguistics. Lee and Mollena also share some very personal examples where consent was not respected. [...]

Mental Health and Sacred Kink

Posted: 18th July 2011 by Lee Harrington in Dear Lee
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This morning I got an email asking why I singled out folk with mental illness as something to “watch out for,” when it comes to working with Sacred Kink, in my book “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond.”  I speed-responded to the individual, then went back to the manuscript and made sure [...]

Those words keep echoing in my head tonight. “I consent to the journey.” Today I interviewed Mollena, Dan and dawn for my podcast.  The conversation topic was consent, and the journey rambled from place to place, story to story, feeling to word to deed.  It was funny and sad and delicious… as it needed to [...]

The Art of Programming Exposed

Posted: 17th July 2011 by Lee Harrington in Journal
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So, I’m having this adventure… called Programming. I used to produce an event called BodyBound in the NW, a 3-day bondage conference for 50-80 people to dive into doing rope, rope and more rope… and a bit of non-rope bondage too for variety.  I did the whole thing myself.  Sent out notices, invited presenters, paid [...]

Sexual Fantasy

Posted: 15th July 2011 by Lee Harrington in Journal
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I have had a lot of sexual fantasies over the years, and heck, I’d say compared to the average person on the street, I’ve done a lot of people’s sexual fantasies at one time or another.  I have gone through purity lists like memory lists, and can tangibly recall my friend Julia introducing me to [...]

How was the event?

Posted: 30th June 2011 by Lee Harrington in Journal
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On the drive back from Dark Odyssey: Fusion, my friend asked me “So, how was the event?  Did you have fun?” My Boy piped up and asked if he could answer it for me.  Out of sheer amusement, I said yes.  He said not really, as I was too busy running everything. My brain stops, [...]

This week, Lee is joined by Aiden Fyre to discuss their path toward the sacred path to Mastery and Slavery, sharing their journey together and how they got there. They share about their own recent commitment & ownership ceremony, their paths in faith, definitions for M/s, D/s, and Topping & Bottoming, and far more. Enjoy the [...]

In this bonus podcast, I find myself in San Francisco interviewing JD on zen, bondage, philosophy for authenticity, and the intersections on kink, sex, passion, and eastern philosophy. Even with extra Alan Watts! JD is member of the internationally renowned bondage duo Two Knotty Boys. He is the producer of over 300 knot and rope [...]