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Transitional Fetishes

I am delighted that fall has come in New York. Like my friend Boymeatwho dances each time it turns to late spring and early summer, I am delighted because one of my historical fetishes becomes common, rather than rare. The fetish? Sweaters. Boymeat’s fetish is for feet, something everyone who knows him seems to know. He even teaches classes on foot fetishism for Tops- hurting feet, tormenting feet, being sexual with feet. There is a perception in kink circles that all foot fetishists are submissive or Bottoms. This is not the case, and I am grateful that Boymeat is out…

July Podcast – Consent, Journeys and Yes

Lee Harrington is joined this week by Mollena Williams and Dan & dawn as he leads a discussion on consent. They range in topic from how to say no, how to say yes, negotiation, the Consensual Project, safe words and linguistics. Lee and Mollena also share some very personal examples where consent was not respected. Plus, bathhouses, sneaky penis and a bucket of worms. http://eroticawakening.libsyn.com/ea128-say-yes Listen to the Erotic Awakening Podcast by clicking on the below for iTunes or here for all other subscription possibilities Want to Ask Lee? Click here to email Lee Harrington If so moved… …

Sexual Fantasy

I have had a lot of sexual fantasies over the years, and heck, I’d say compared to the average person on the street, I’ve done a lot of people’s sexual fantasies at one time or another. I have gone through purity lists like memory lists, and can tangibly recall my friend Julia introducing me to my friend Strider, many years ago at a Leather Retreat. The name, back then, was not Lee. Julia: “Lee, you need to meet Strider, he is the sickest fuck I know in the NorthEast.” Strider stood up with pride, a bit of a cocky bulldog,…

How was the event?

On the drive back from Dark Odyssey: Fusion, my friend asked me “So, how was the event? Did you have fun?” My Boy piped up and asked if he could answer it for me. Out of sheer amusement, I said yes. He said not really, as I was too busy running everything. My brain stops, I pause, I consider… and I say I disagree. I had a very different time than the average attendee might have, but I enjoyed the fact that I got to facilitate amazing experiences for others- and for me, the fact that I got to play…

June Podcast – Rope Authenticity, Rope Bliss

On this weeks show, Lee Harrington shares about rope! Rope authenticity, rope bliss…and not letting the idiots and one true way folks get you down. Plus, stacks of funny and personal learning stories from the bondage journey of the author of “Shibari You Can Use”. Music on today’s episode is from the album Torrent by Pocket Universe http://eroticawakening.libsyn.com/ea124-rope-authenticity-rope-bliss- Got a question or comment for Lee? You can “Ask Lee” at Lee@passionandsoul.com And you can find all things Lee Harrington at passionandsoul.com Download the podcast or listen to it online here. If so moved…

May Podcast: The Spiritual Calling of Mastery and Slavery with Aiden Fyre

This week, Lee is joined by Aiden Fyre to discuss their path toward the sacred path to Mastery and Slavery, sharing their journey together and how they got there. They share about their own recent commitment & ownership ceremony, their paths in faith, definitions for M/s, D/s, and Topping & Bottoming, and far more. Enjoy the podcast here. You can find out more about Aiden at AidenFyre.com. Music on today’s episode is the song Joie De Vivre from the album Yami Kallima by Pocket Universe Got a question or comment for Lee? You can “Ask Lee” at Lee@passionandsoul.com And you can find…

The Mirror of Their Eyes

Aiden, my delicious and delightful human Property, my Boy, my Treasure… they just texted me. Now, for those who know me, you should know that this is not a new thing. Last month we crashed my phone having not cleared out the over 5000 messages he and I had sent back and forth in under 4 months. When systems say “unlimited text messages,” we take them up on the offer. “She [a friend at University]can’t make it [to our Ownership ceremony] but was asking questions about D/s and I was faltering at explaining it well enough to her. [cut] What…

May You Be Covered in Dust and Leather

Last night I learned of a prayer for Rabbinical students from times long ago from the amazing Dyland Richards, my house guest last night on his way to a Franciscan Monastery for a religious event (I love the variety of humans in my world). May you be covered in his dust. Or May you be covered in the dust of your Rabbi. I have a deep and resounding respect for the teachings of Jesus/Joshua, and yet my own relationship with his ministry has been challenging at times due to how it has been interpreted, implemented and dogmatically enforced over the…