Passionate Allies: Evie Vane – How To Get Tied Up

7355fc67bbbbdfa4ec189ed080e88890I fell in love with the work of Evie Vane when she sent me a copy of her book The Little Guide to Getting Tied Up (and suspensions). Easy to read, frank, fun… I’d met her before but I smiled as I read her words and nodded my head in memory from when I learned a lot of the lessons myself. I’d tried to incorporate a number of the tools into my own bondage books, but she of course was able to take it further because it was a project focused entirely on bottoming.

It tickled me to find out she had started her own website, complete with a vimeo series on rope bottoming skills. With her permission, I wanted to bring you some of her wit and wisdom, because it is useful, and loving, all at once. These ideas are also great for everyone into rope to learn!

This video is entitled How to Get Tied Up, Part 1: Finding a Rope Partner

For those interested in my own top ten tips and skills in being a rope bottom, or ten tips and skills for being a rope top, feel free to enjoy those links as well.

Thank you so much Evie for being such an amazing passionate ally.


Lee Harrington

Lee Harrington is an internationally known sexuality, relationships, and personal authenticity educator. Having taught in all 50 states and in 6 countries, he brings a combination of playful engagement and thoughtful academic dialogue to a broad audience. An award-winning author and editor on gender, sexual, and sacred experience, his books include “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Journeys,” and "Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond," among many other titles. He has been blogging online since 1998, and been teaching worldwide since 2001. Welcome to his world, and your chance to expand your mind and heart alike.

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