Sacred Kink Books

Part of building the Sacred Kink Second Edition involves building a book resource section of course! Find below my list of Sacred Kink books! I’d also love to hear your favorite books in the following topics that have helped you in your spiritual, energetic, and connected pursuit of kink (or found that kink helped you with those topics and found good information/reflection in what was written about). The topics are: Sex and Kink Relationships (including D/s and polyamory) Tantra and Sex Magic Spirituality and Magic (if you have any that tie in from Islam, Christianity or Judaism, that would be…

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{Impressions} Murphy Blue: Dancing in Ecstatic Energy

It has been a while since I did an entry in this series of rope rigger/artist impressions, and as I collect links for post-book-release, I came across Murphy Blue’s website, and was called to write one about him. This one departs slightly from the other two about Zamil and Mark Dv8, but who cares… this is my series after all. a swirling blur delicious rope in hand their intimate secret I can not remember when I met Murphy. This is for the best, as it embeds in my body the feeling that I have always had him in my life.…

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BASK Presents: Sacred Kink Conversations

Many folks have written to Bay Area Sacred Kink (BASK) with juicy and pertinent questions regarding SKII. The folks at BASK are passionate about getting your questions answered. With that in mind, They’ve decided to launch a series of 4 conference calls that will address your questions and hopefully give some insight into what SKII: Sacred Kink Initiatory Intensive is all about. Each call will address different topics and information. What is the Sacred Kink Initiatory Intensive… http://www.bayareasacredkink.com/sacred-kink-intensives/ It is this amazing 3-day immersive experience that I am so touched to be bringing to the world – I have been…

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Kink and BDSM Glossary

Kink Lingo Glossary (Used with permission from “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the BDSM, Kink and Leather Communities” by Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams) Getting kinky folks to agree on anything is a monumental task. In the interest of establishing a common lexicon for the purposes of our book — and being as clear as we can with our language — we present the following definitions for some of the more common terms you’ll encounter in your explorations of the kink community. Aftercare — Post-scene activities or processing. Styles of aftercare vary. Ageplay —…

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Transcending Boundaries Keynote – VIDEO

On Saturday, November 20th, it was my absolute delight to get to deliver the keynote speech for the Transcending Boundaries Conference, in Worcester, MA.  This amazing conference was a three-day event with both academic and profoundly personal conversations ranging in topics from Asexuality to Bisexuality, Kinky to Polyamorous, Transgender to Intersex to Genderqueer… and all the spaces in-between and beyond.  Their topic this year was “Intersections”, and thus, when I was invited to give the Keynote Speech, I had the delightful and somewhat terrifying opportunity to find a message that might meet them all… and thus I started with Organic…

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Deborah Anapol Clarifies…

About 6 months ago a rumor reached me in the middle of my class “Safer Magical Sex and Erotic Energy Exchanges” that internationally acclaimed author and speaker on open relationship dynamics, tantra and love Deborah Anapol believed that it was possible to use magic to protect from STDs.  I said it was not impossible, but highly improbable- and in discussion with Wintersong Tashlin he pointed out that it was a waste of good magical talent if it was possible… why spend decades mastering a craft to only use it to replace something that costs under 50 cents and isn’t that…

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Kink Academy – Texas Handcuffs

Texas Handcuffs: Lee Harrington plus one piece of rope equals one quickly tied-up person! Lee demonstrates – from 3 vantage points – Texas handcuffs, and then shows a creative follow-up tie as well. He finishes this 5-minute clip with a vital discussion on a variety of safety matters. See all of my videos at KinkAcademy here – http://www.tinyurl.com/leevideos

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Kink Academy – Animal Roleplaying, Safer Magical Sex and Head Bondage

Animal Roleplay: Lee Harrington highlights the great varieties in this 11-minute video on animal role play. There are the many types of animals (ponies, horses, puppies, dogs, kittens, cat, pigs, hogs, and many other non-mammals as well), and a great diversity within each animal (shapes, sizes, personalities, etc.). Lee notes why people play as animals and encourages you to communicate to your partner what you want to do in character. Plus, he discusses important topics such as language, physicality, naming, food, etc. Enjoy a whole new world! Safer Magical Sex: Lee creatively uses the physical safe sex analogy to explain…

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KinkAcademy – Age Play and Sex/Power in Age Play

Age Play: Lee Harrington defines age play as any role playing that involves age dynamics between consenting adults and introduces the various types of such play (infantilism, toddler, school-aged kids, etc.) in this twelve minute clip. Lee also describes various motivations and inspirations for age play, corrects common misperceptions about this play, and underscores the importance of healthy communication with your partner. Let go, step into character, and enjoy some genuine play time! Power and Sex in Age Play: Lee Harrington examines another provocative topic during the following ten minutes. Lee brings his usual positive and encouraging approach to the…

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KinkAcademy – Pain, Pain Processing and Fetishism

What is Pain?: What is Pain? How do we respond to pain? These are just two of the questions Lee Harrington addresses in this 7-minute video. In a culture that seeks to eliminate pain, how do we experience pain and discuss that experience with our partners? Lee’s definitions, insights, and recommendations are sure to help us understand each other and communicate better as well. Pain Processing: Lee Harrington’s second video on pain is a 15-minute discussion on how to adjust (increase or decrease) the amount of pain we take. Lee offers various techniques (body movement, vocalization, breathing, focus, etc.) and…

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