Wet Dreams and Wetter Desires: Ramblings on Piss and Female Ejaculation

First Published in Wet Set Magazine, Issue #48

Wet Dreams and Wetter Desires:  Ramblings on Piss and Female Ejaculation
By Lee “Bridgett” Harrington

Wetness.
Warmth.
Naughtiness.
Silliness.
Desire.

Piss play is a curious thing for me, a line between taboo and natural instinct, between degradation and dominance, between inappropriate desires and what just IS.  My own exploration into water sports began when I was a little girl, peeing in the shower.  It was simpler than getting out of the warm water and shivering and wet getting onto the toilet- but it was more than that.  It was about peeing where it wasn’t okay.  It was about the warmth washing down my body on a cool morning.  It was fun, silly, and not quite right.

It is hard for me some days to justify that I really like piss.  I grew up with a small bladder, and my brain still associates pissing at inappropriate times with being a very physically ill little girl that couldn’t hold it until she got up, got home, got somewhere that it was alright to go.  But that usually goes away the minute my bladder opens up over my lovers body and they sigh with delight as I wash away the sins of the world… or when I look up and beg, please please please can I go now?

There are a lot of types of pee play, and at this point, I have done most of them on one side of the bladder or the other.  The thing I have found most fascinating is not that I enjoy peeing or being peed on, but the why of each person I play with.  With some people I play with it is silly and fun, something different to do or a chance to break out of their serious life roles and just indulge in something playful.  For others it is about humiliation or submission, embarrassment in public or being turned into a lowly toilet.  Some people I play with enjoy the spiritual or trust aspects of urine- becoming part of someone’s cycle, fluid bonding in a time of body fluid taboo.  I myself love the pure hedonism of piss, public exposure, increased intensity of orgasm, of the body sensations that come with denial and then finally, gifting release.

The other tricky thing I have found with piss play is a misunderstanding amongst a lot of people between female ejaculation and water sports.  Piss is generated in the kidneys, while female ejaculate is produced in the Urethral sponge, Skene’s glands, and Paraurethral glands.  The first is the bladder being relieved, the second is from either g-spot stimulation or other forms of sexual stimulation of the tissue behind the clitoris up in the vaginal cavity.  Yes, both come out of the urethra (though some women also ejaculate straight out of the spongy tissue inside the vagina).  And yes, some women enjoy releasing their urine when they cum… but come on folks, these are different substances.

Urine, unless you have been doctoring your fluid intake, tends to be yellow in color and acidic in taste.  Female ejaculate is clear to milky in color, and tends to be more bitter in taste and scent.  Some girls squirt, and you know what, some women can be trained to squirt.  I know a lot of piss players who like women who squirt, but telling a girl that she is pissing when she cums can be hard for some of us to hear- especially when it isn’t true!  I ejaculate about a third of the time when I cum.  I can also consciously choose or not choose to involve piss in my sexual play.  They are different!

Did you say doctor your fluids?  That’s right piss gourmets, there are recipes you can try!

  • Want to create an offensive odor on purpose, or something very strong and pungent?  Try asparagus, garlic, heavy animal product consumption (such as dairy, eggs or meats), nuts and beans.  Eat 1-6 hours before you play depending on your body.
  • Want a weaker flavor?  Stop drinking all that soda and tea and drink more water!  Lots of it.  Start drinking and peeing regularly a day before for volume and bland taste.
  • Want something sweet?  Try drinking and eating mint.  Vegetarians have sweeter piss.  Candy consumers can be sweetly flavored too… but be careful, sweet piss can also be a sign that the pissing person has diabetes.

So I like to pee.  Yup.  I pee professionally (adult films and Dominatrix sessions).  I pee publicly (shows and classes, and sometimes wetting myself in public or peeing at the side of the road).  I pee out of practicality (pissing in the shower or at a festival when the porta-potties are full).  I pee for sensuality (the warm streams of gold rushing down my lovers body).  I pee for sex (I can cum twice as hard if I hold my bladder for a long time before I cum).  I pee for play (white knickers, being “little”).  I pee for my lovers (their pleas for more yes more).  I pee for me.

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Lee Harrington

Lee Harrington is an internationally known sexuality, relationships, and personal authenticity educator. Having taught in all 50 states and in 6 countries, he brings a combination of playful engagement and thoughtful academic dialogue to a broad audience. An award-winning author and editor on gender, sexual, and sacred experience, his books include “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Journeys,” and "Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond," among many other titles. He has been blogging online since 1998, and been teaching worldwide since 2001. Welcome to his world, and your chance to expand your mind and heart alike.

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