Pieces of Passion 1 – Introducing PoP & Blindfolds in Bondage

Late in the night I was being driven by justbeast and yuki_onna were diving me to my hotel for Beat Me in St Louis having spent the day having fun all around town with s00j and K and the Rev and his Lady… and an idea came to pass, and this is the idea.

To share ideas, thoughts and brainstorms of sex, kink, play, erotic authenticity, passion and sexy fun. Daily. Pieces of them. I plan to eventually put up a tip jar, and have a balance to it that are longer concepts and rants called Sutras of Soul (SoS), thus showing my journal to reflect my personal mission of helping spread both Passion and Soul around the world.

And thus the idea begins.

Pieces of Passion
Piece #1- Blindfolds in Bondage

Getting started with rope bondage can be scary for the person tying the ropes- what if we mess up? My first tip- invest in a blindfold!

Whether it is a padded blindfold, a silk sash, a tie from your business suit (or theirs for extra feeling of power!), a bandanna, their shirt pulled over their head… when you blindfold them not only will they not see you looking nervous when you whip out your book on rope bondage, but there are other great benefits. They include:

-Not having your partner try to “help” you when you need them to stay still
-Building trust
-Ends of rope not accidentally hitting them in the eye if you tie too fast
-No feeling silly if your tongue comes out when you think deep thoughts
-They don’t have to know “you didn’t mean to do that”

Now remember with blindfolds and bondage- time starts to pass strange. Leaving them with no touch for 1 minute may feel like an hour. This can be scary for some folks. Also, if they are blindfolded, they will need more help moving around (they can’t see the cat sleeping on the floor), and they will have no idea of what “move over there” means.

Not everyone is into blindfolds, but its a great tool to combine with rope bondage, and a great way to have a fun time.

Go forth, play with your passions, and enjoy.

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Lee Harrington

Lee Harrington is an internationally known sexuality, relationships, and personal authenticity educator. Having taught in all 50 states and in 6 countries, he brings a combination of playful engagement and thoughtful academic dialogue to a broad audience. An award-winning author and editor on gender, sexual, and sacred experience, his books include “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Journeys,” and "Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond," among many other titles. He has been blogging online since 1998, and been teaching worldwide since 2001. Welcome to his world, and your chance to expand your mind and heart alike.

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